A quieter social network

Meet the kind of people you'd actually want to sit with.

Take the personality test, and we’ll hand you three people nearby who fit you. Each match arrives with a pre-planned thing to do — no “what’s up” limbo, no awkward silences.

5 min

Average time from signup to first match.

30 facets

Big-Five psychometric dimensions we weigh.

E2EE

Your DMs are unreadable to us by design.

How it works

Three steps between curious and booked.

01 · Match

Big Five, not Buzzfeed.

A real psychometric assessment — IPIP-NEO. Your results shape who you see and who sees you.

02 · Plan

Pre-built first hangs.

Coffee, a gallery opening, a chess park — every new friend arrives with three concrete invites.

03 · Keep in touch

DMs that stay yours.

End-to-end encrypted with Bry_NFET_SX. Not harvested, not sold, not “trained on.”

What you’ll see

A feed that doesn’t pressure you into performance.

No algorithmic feed optimized for outrage. No endless scroll. Just the people we think you’d actually click with, the things happening near you, and conversation starters when you need them.

  • ·Personality-matched candidate cards
  • ·Events + deals already tied to your interests
  • ·Plan-the-Hang AI proposes three meetups per pair
  • ·Tiered — Free works, paid goes further
arewefriends.org/matches
A

Alex

coffee · hiking

91
P

Priya

books · jazz

87
N

Noah

chess · film

84
S

Sam

yoga · art

82

Pricing

Free is a real tier.

Free gets you matched and met. Paid tiers unlock reach-out-first DMs, unlimited matches, the AI planner, and first-dibs on hand-curated meetups.

Free

$0/mo

Quiet start.

Friend+

$7.99/mo

Reach out first.

Social

$14.99/mo

Unlimited everything.

Founders'

$29.99/mo

First 1,000 only.

Start — Free →